

Happenings Newsletter
26Q2V9
June 2026
Dr. Jeffrey Long

Love Is Not Merely an Emotion
One of the most striking and consistent messages in near-death experiences is that love is not merely an emotion. In hundreds of NDERF accounts, experiencers describe love as a profound reality encountered during the NDE itself. The NDERF “Love Encountered in Near-Death Experiences” page includes 522 NDEs in which experiencers answered “Yes” or “Uncertain” to the survey question, “During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding love?” These accounts were drawn from sequentially shared English-language NDEs from November 11, 2011, to April 8, 2021, with NDE Scale scores of 7 or higher. Here is the link: Love Encountered in Near-Death Experiences.
What is remarkable is not only that love is commonly mentioned, but how consistently it is described. Again and again, NDErs describe love as unconditional, overwhelming, all-encompassing, and beyond ordinary earthly
language. Some say love was everywhere. Others say love was the essence of the light, the presence, God, or the reality they entered. Many emphasize that earthly words are inadequate, because the love encountered during the NDE was greater, purer, and more complete than anything they had known in ordinary life. Another recurring theme is that love is closely connected with the purpose of life. NDErs often return with the awareness that we are here to love one another, forgive one another, accept one another, and live with greater compassion. The message is rarely complicated. It is simple, direct, and deeply challenging: love matters more than status, possessions, fear, judgment, or division. For many experiencers, this awareness becomes one of the most transformative parts of the NDE. The consistency of these comments is especially meaningful because the accounts come from people of many backgrounds and circumstances. Yet the message repeatedly converges around the same central insight: love is real, love is foundational, and love may be the deepest truth of our existence. For those who read NDEs seeking hope, comfort, or understanding, this may be one of their most important gifts to humanity.
Jody Long
How Near-Death Experiences Can Help Caregivers
Maria had been caring for her elderly father for nearly three years. Every day, she helped him eat, take medicine, and get to doctor appointments. She loved him deeply, but caring for someone who was slowly growing weaker was emotionally exhausting. Some nights she lay awake worrying about death and wondering what happens when life ends.
One evening, after a difficult day, Maria watched a video about a near-death experience. The person described leaving their body during a medical emergency and feeling surrounded by overwhelming peace, love, and comfort. Maria did not know exactly what to believe, but something about the story stayed with her. For the first time in a long while, she felt a little less afraid. Many caregivers describe similar experiences after reading or watching near-death experiences, often called NDEs.

Caregivers include nurses, hospice workers, doctors, family members, and anyone helping someone who is sick or dying. Taking care of others can be rewarding, but it can also be emotionally heavy. Over time, some caregivers feel stress, sadness, burnout, or fear about death. NDE stories often affect caregivers in positive ways. One of the biggest changes is that many caregivers become less afraid of death. People who have had NDEs frequently describe feelings of peace, love, and continued awareness during moments when they were close to dying. These stories can help caregivers feel calmer when supporting someone near the end of life. Many caregivers also say NDEs help them become more patient and compassionate. NDE experiencers often talk about the importance of kindness, love, and human connection. After hearing these stories, caregivers sometimes begin to focus less on fear and more on making the patient feel comforted and cared for. Even small acts, like holding someone’s hand or sitting quietly beside them, can feel deeply meaningful. NDEs may also help caregivers cope with grief. Some experiencers describe seeing deceased loved ones or feeling connected to something larger than themselves. Whether people view these experiences as spiritual, medical, or deeply personal, many caregivers say the stories give them hope and emotional comfort during difficult times. Reading or watching NDEs does not mean someone has to change their religion or beliefs. People interpret these experiences in different ways. Still, many caregivers report that NDE stories help them feel more peaceful, more connected to others, and more able to face difficult moments with courage. For caregivers who spend so much of their lives helping others, that sense of hope can make a real difference. Sometimes, a simple story of peace and love can help remind people that even during life’s hardest moments, compassion and human connection still matter most.
NDERF Spotlight: Volunteer Leah Dozier

This quarter, we’re honored to spotlight Leah Dozier.
My name is Leah Dozier, and I am captivated by the science of consciousness, what creates our reality, and the deeply spiritual and philosophical questions of what our purpose is and why we are here. Based in Ocean Springs, Mississippi, I have spent the past year channeling that curiosity into supporting the Near-Death Experience Research Foundation (NDERF) on the technology and research side. By contributing to platform evaluation, website modernization, and backend systems development, my goal is to help NDERF better serve the NDE community and advance the global conversation around consciousness and the afterlife.
By trade, I bring over 25 years of enterprise telecom and audiovisual experience in healthcare and call center services to this work. I recently brought that
background into an exciting entrepreneurial pursuit as the Founder and CEO of a business communications company, Cloud Connect One. Long before stepping into my volunteer role for NDERF, my life has been shaped by a deep commitment to community and advocacy. I spent six years serving as a CASA volunteer, five years as a resource for child services, and four years volunteering with Foster Friends of Acadiana, where I was honored to receive their Volunteer of the Year award in 2023. At home, life is just as beautifully busy. My husband, Mike, and I are raising two sons and a niece who are thriving here on the Gulf Coast. When I'm not working or volunteering, you can usually find me reading. I am an avid reader who consumes over a hundred books a year, enjoying both fiction and transformational nonfiction and consciousness studies. I love bringing that same restless curiosity, drive, and tech-forward mindset to both my family life and my volunteer work with the NDERF community.
Another Testament to the Power of NDEs

Focusing on the Transformative Nature of NDEs
Reported level of compassion prior and after the NDE:
Prior: Slightly Compassionate, After: Greatly Compassionate
Question: Did you have a change in your values and beliefs because of your experience? Answer: Yes, No death penalty. Do not cause harm. Be compassionate and loving towards all people, even murderers or child molesters, for they are made from pure love as well.
Question: Did you gain special knowledge about your purpose? Answer: Yes to love, to express myself from a place of pure love, as God was with me, a part of me and I am part of God. To remember to treat everyone as God would.
NDE Summary Below
(click link for full narrative)
NDE Summary
One of the most remarkable aspects of near-death experiences is not only what is reported during the event, but how profoundly lives change afterward. At nderf.org, individuals who report out-of-body observations during life-threatening events frequently describe a lasting loss of death anxiety, greater compassion toward others, stronger relationships, and a deeper appreciation for life. Julia O., whose experience included heightened awareness beyond ordinary physical perception, later summarized one of her most enduring life changes simply: “To respect all forms of life.” She also reported becoming “much more compassionate towards others.” These kinds of transformations are among the most consistent findings in NDE research, suggesting that the strength and reality of the NDE often becomes a powerful catalyst for enduring positive change, personal healing, and growth. Importantly, these changes are rationally consistent with the nature and content of the experience. Death anxiety is arguably humanity's greatest fear, and any experience that radically reduces or eliminates that fear and improves an individual's psychological quality of life is worth investigating. The rational linkage between the experience and the after-effects, combined with its persistence, furthers the reality of what was reportedly encountered. As NDE researcher Dr. Kenneth Ring once stated, "When an individual knows with a sense of unshakable certitude that he can exist outside of his own body, he intuitively understands that physical death is not an end..." We encourage you to read Julia's NDE narrative and questionnaire answers to get a sense of just how powerful the transformative effects of an NDE are, despite having no known physical source.
NDE 101

Seeing Without Eyes
An objectively verifiable element of NDEs likely offers the strongest evidence that self-conscious awareness can exist apart from the physical body.
By Joseph Khasho One of the most compelling and scientifically significant elements of near-death experiences (NDEs) is the out-of-body experience (OBE). During these events, individuals who have NDEs report accurate and lucid observations of ongoing earthly events apart from their physical bodies. Documented in peer-reviewed research and repeatedly corroborated by healthcare professionals and witnesses, NDE researchers refer to these cases as veridical perceptions—clear and organized observations that correspond to reality and are reported at a time and from a position inconsistent with the state and location of the physical body. In simple terms, experiencers describe seeing and sometimes hearing real events, often with more clarity than waking reality, that are later confirmed to be accurate despite being unconscious due to physical trauma, cardiac arrest, general anesthesia, or other causes. In other words, such individuals are describing accurate perceptions apart from ordinary sensory channels. Reports of verifiable observations of ongoing earthly events occur in roughly 45% of NDEs. Such reports would be extraordinary under any circumstance. Accurate perception during normal unconscious states, such as sleep, would itself invite careful investigation. Yet veridical perceptions reported during periods of severe physiological compromise, including clinical death, provide researchers with naturally occurring conditions in which conscious awareness appears to function independently of ordinary sensory channels. Over decades of research, hundreds of these accounts have been documented worldwide. While some aspects of NDEs remain open to interpretation, such observations during an NDE present a unique challenge because they involve objective information that can be independently verified. Equally significant, they help establish naturally occurring boundary conditions that distinguish ordinary sensory awareness from reports of awareness that appear to operate beyond conventional physical limitations. When considered alongside the profound and enduring after-effects commonly reported by NDErs—including reduced fear of death, increased compassion, greater altruism, heightened appreciation for life, strengthened relationships, reduced materialism, and a deeper sense of meaning and purpose—the evidential significance becomes even more compelling because the resulting transformations are rationally consistent with the content of the experiences themselves. To date, no alternative explanation has been able to comprehensively account for such perceptions and after-effects other than conscious awareness functioning independently of the physical body. The phenomenology documented through NDE research has repeatedly proven useful in explaining these experiences to those who have them and in supporting their integration afterward. Most importantly, this research offers a promising foundation on a larger scale for advancing therapeutic approaches aimed at improving psychological well-being, meaning-making, altruism, and reducing anxiety beyond current therapeutic practices and culturally derived frameworks.