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March 2025

Jeff Long

Dr. Jeffrey Long

A Contrast Between NDEs and Drug Use Experiences

8-10% of near-death experiences have a comment towards the end indicating that, "It's not your time yet" or "You have more work to do."  Interestingly and preliminarily, this fact is effectively not found in illicit drug use experiences. This underscores another fundamental distinction between NDEs and drug use.


 

 

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Calling all storytellers and artists! We’d love to feature your creation, poem, photo, painting, song, or profound thought on our Facebook page and quarterly NDERF Happenings newsletter. Whether it’s a heartfelt moment, a striking image, or a creative expression inspired by actual NDEs and the values they represent, we welcome your submissions. Your work can capture the ineffability of these profound experiences through personal reflections, symbolic representations, or artistic interpretations through your own life’s journey.

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Jody Long

Jody Long

A Perfect You

As I write this, P!nk’s poignant and timely song Perfect plays in the background. How many of you have been feeling “mistreated, misplaced, misunderstood” or just out of sync with all the chaos and change in the world? Near-Death Experiences (NDEs) and transformative encounters have much to say about this. Again and again, experiencers return with a singular, profound message: love. The life review highlights love. The overarching theme of the experience is love. It’s powerful to read about love in this context—it stirs something deep within us. But what does that truly mean? And more importantly, how do we apply it to our own lives? On the other side, everything is one—united in a way that transcends our earthly divisions. Here on Earth, however, we fragment and categorize every aspect of existence. Yet, this separation is part of our learning journey, a way to understand unconditional love from a new and challenging perspective. Love on the other side is more than an emotion; it is the very fabric of existence. It embodies perfect unity and connection, forming the matrix that holds the universe together. Love is not just a feeling; it is a form of communication, a current that carries telepathy and transcendent awareness. In that space of oneness, we are aware of many beings across many dimensions, all interconnected. Perhaps it's worth remembering that each of us carries the divine spark of creation—that ineffable force many call God. This means we are not powerless in shaping our experience. We hold the ability to perceive, interpret, and choose how we engage with the world. We can create, learn, and transform, always moving toward greater awareness. When we feel love in our hearts, we feel better. We feel connected. And if love can change how we feel within, then surely it can change the world around us. By focusing on increasing this love—first within ourselves, then extending it outward—we can transform not only our own lives but also the lives of those around us. Because in the eyes of the Divine, we are already perfect. Loving yourself means recognizing that inherent perfection, even as you continue to grow and learn. Bringing the love of the other side into your life isn’t just about feeling good—it’s about becoming that love. As you cultivate it within, you reshape your reality, aligning yourself with respect, harmony, and unity. “…Pretty, pretty please—if you ever, ever feel like you’re nothing… you are perfect...” So, remember: You are already perfect. You are still learning, still growing—but in your essence, you are perfect. And that love, once truly embraced, has the power to change everything.

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Spotlight

NDERF Spotlight: Volunteer - Arrendle Brown

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Arrendle was born in California and raised on the west coast where she received a Bachelor of Arts in Law Studies from St. Mary’s College of California and was a certified Intellectual Property paralegal for many years.  

She is now a full-time author who became interested in Near Death Experiences as a young adult. After reading a 2011 study in Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences (2011;1234:19–28) noting that over 9 million people in the U.S. reported having a near death experience, Arrendle began to research the science of NDEs and continues to research how these experiences affect individuals and their families.

With several writing projects underway, Arrendle is working on a children’s book for NDERF to help promote the central message within NDEs, a message of hope and love that so many children need and so many adults can appreciate.

Arrendle lives with her husband and family in Upstate New York. Welcome aboard!

Book Review

NDERF Book Review

by Diane Dobry ED.D.

​Believing is Seeing--By Michael Guillen

Michael Guillen, Ph.D. flips the saying, “Seeing is believing” as he progresses from his younger self—a curious, 5/8 Mexican boy born in East LA, raised in a very traditional Spanish-speaking Pentecostal Christian family, in which the men were ministers—to choosing a life as a highly educated scientist. Guillen explains his belief that science was the go-to authority and his need to know and rely on evidence were the reasons he subscribed to a worldview based on logic over faith. After receiving a BS in physics and mathematics from UCLA, he ventured far from his California roots to pursue graduate studies in physics at Cornell University in New York. He was both geographically and philosophically, far, too, as he abandoned his family’s religion—one he never truly embraced, to begin life as an Atheist and “scientific monk.” He sought answers to questions about what lies beyond our planet, what the universe was made of, and how it began based on observations and logical, mathematical proof. Yet, in the book’s Introduction, Guillen says a worldview is “your own personal Svengali, the all-powerful puppeteer deep within your subconscious that pulls your strings, that controls not only how you see everything but how you react to everything….” It is, he writes, ultimately how you view yourself, others, the cosmos, and God. He adds that “faith, far from being a weakness, is far stronger than logic, stronger than empirical evidence…” and it is a mysterious agent that supports one’s worldview. In this book he outlines the basis of this perspective and leads us to his conclusion that “believing is seeing.” At Cornell, he delved deep into physics, astronomy, and mathematics to understand galaxies—earning a triple Ph.D. in all three fields and going on to teach physics at Harvard. After a chance encounter with a CBS correspondent, he also ended up as a science reporter for CBS Morning News, adding three Emmys and several groundbreaking TV news contributions to his already illustrious academic accomplishments. His Cornell studies introduced him to the mysteries of "dark matter" and "dark energy,” and the fact that 95 percent of the universe is invisible, meaning that faith was necessary to pursue answers to these unseen phenomena. That realization threw him off. Through his ongoing questioning and exploration, he ultimately came to the same conclusion that Psychologist William James did: that exploring hypotheses in science requires a "will to believe." He needed to adjust to the fact that not everything in the universe can be directly observed or personally experienced. The book describes IQ (trivial and logical truths and realities that can be seen, proven, and imagined) versus SQ (spiritual intelligence, which considers what cannot be seen, proven, or imagined), and examines examples of misguided and enlightened faith of each. He unpacks the notion of having “faith in faith,” breaking down the scientific method and its need for faith-based intelligence. Next, reviews his “Awakenings”—what he learned in his studies about galaxies, quantum fields, string theories, and translogical or deep, profound thinking to put it all together. He explains, in short order, each of these, clearly enough for a non-physicist to grasp, before introducing the following chapter—The Reckoning—about meeting a curious young woman who was an intelligent and avid reader. They decided to read the Bible over the course of two years and discuss it together, since neither one had ever read it in its entirety. Seeing a lot of similarities between Christianity and Quantum Physics, his Reckoning chapter illustrates his comparison of the beliefs and tenets of science and those of Christianity. Though they read other religious books, their evaluation only compared and contrasted scientific, Atheistic, and Christian worldviews in order to determine which best fit together, if any did at all. They covered several questions in the process, narrowing it down to “three deep questions” for the worldview of each category: • Does absolute truth exist? • Are there truths that cannot be proven? • Is the universe designed for life? Guillen looks at how each worldview relates to each question, and, spoiler alert, ultimately decides that, based on the detailed information he has laid out, a clear correlation exists between scientific and Christian worldviews, while Atheism exhibits no relation to the three deep questions. Thus, Guillen concludes that Atheism is fundamentally opposed to the scientific worldview, the Christian worldview is fundamentally in line with the scientific worldview, and that his past belief that Atheism best aligned with science was now turned upside down. Yet, he still had more questions and lays out how he pursued those further. While I was surprised to see a highly educated scientist and devout Atheist for much of his life, not only outline his decision to return to his early belief in Christianity, or to discuss religion at all in this discussion of his scientific career path. Yet, he looks at concepts that many of us are weighing when faced with profound truths, the origins of the universe, or the mysteries of life and death. Guillen is not alone in expressing his acceptance of faith in a creator or higher power while studying how the universe came to be. Brian Keating, a Distinguished Professor of Physics at the University of California, San Diego, and the principal investigator at Simons Observatory describes himself as an expert in the study of the universe’s oldest light, the cosmic microwave background (CMB), using it to learn about the origin and evolution of the universe. In a recent interview, Keating explained that, though most scientists “find it distasteful for a real scientist to even contemplate the possibility of God,” he considers himself to be a devout agnostic who has no problem as a researcher including a belief in God while studying universal evolution. He supports the idea of exploring how the scientific evidence connects to the creation stories of religions such as Judaism, Christianity, or Islam. Readers interested in Guillen’s discussion of his research in physics, mathematics, and astronomy, his career as an Emmy-winning science correspondent for CBS, or his acceptance of a Christian doctrine in understanding not only science, will find his story well told, unfolding all of these aspects in an easy-to-follow account of his personal search for answers.

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NDE 101

NDE 101

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In this edition of Happenings, we are excited to launch our educational series, NDE 101. This series lays the groundwork for our global mission to aggregate and disseminate compelling information about the reality and nature of near-death experiences (NDEs). It’s the most powerful human experience known and our goal is to deepen education and awareness of these profound accounts by exploring both the strength of mounting research and their life-changing stories. Tens of millions of individuals have had an NDE globally and, as this definition illustrates, an NDE is characterized by a distinct out-of-body awareness. That awareness sometimes comes with observations of physical events that correspond to reality yet occurs at a time and from a perspective that is inconsistent with the state and location of the body. This remarkable phenomenon not only underscores the profound soul-body distinction that defines an NDE but also ushers in a powerful personal transformation. Both the realization that one can survive physical death and the nature of their experience in the afterlife can profoundly effect how they choose to live every moment of this life. Such realizations often prompt changes in whole worldviews acknowledging the existence of their own soul in the process. Additionally, whether by direct deduction or encounter, they may sense an indescribable connection or ONEness to all things and a sacred awareness of the divine sometimes in a being bathed in radiant light and love that is often described as God or a universal creative consciousness. As a result, the fear of death diminishes, and an enhanced appreciation for life's delicate yet precious nature emerges. It is that awareness which appears to radically change their perspective, priorities, and behavior when engaging the world. Remember, while each story is unique, true insight into NDEs comes from reviewing a broad range of experiences and the consistencies between them rather than relying on a single account. Explore some of these extraordinary accounts on NDERF by clicking the links below and visiting our current NDEs and archives at www.nderf.org: Heather S, “I saw myself outside of my body…” Read Heather's NDE - copy and paste this link to your browser: https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1heather_s_nde.html John B, “I was broadsided... by a car...” Read John's NDE - copy and paste this link to your browser: https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1john_b_nde.html

A Testament

Another Testament to the Power of NDEs

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Focusing on the Transformative Power

Question: "Have your relationships changed specifically because of your experience"

Answer: "Yes, I have more grace and mercy for others... Giving people far more berth, more understanding. I want to be more hard working, sacrifice more, love harder. I am less inhibited in communicating my feelings, Making things happen with people. I no longer feel like people are strangers -- I am everyone... have been everyone... will be everyone at some time. I feel immediately warm with everyone."

Read the summary of Bristol's experience below or the full narrative at:

https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1bristol_o_nde.html

SUMMARY OF THE NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE (NDE) Bristol underwent a near-death experience after suffering massive internal bleeding from a ruptured ovarian cyst and losing over 3.5 liters of blood. She lost consciousness multiple times before being rushed to emergency surgery. During her NDE, she found herself floating in space, surrounded by nebulae and cosmic structures, feeling immense peace and bliss. She encountered an incorporeal being, perceived more emotionally than visually, who explained the nature of existence and reincarnation. The being revealed that spirits exist in a state of stasis between lives, with some waiting longer than others based on the significance of their past experiences. Spirits who had committed great harm were placed in extended stasis, not as punishment, but to reflect on their past actions. She was told to be given a rare choice: to remain in the peaceful spirit world or return to her physical life. Despite presumably no memory of her earthly identity, she still felt profound empathy for her physical self. She eventually realized she had been judgmental, rigid, and isolated in life, and felt a duty to return to her body with a renewed purpose; to engage with life more fully and meaningfully. Her return journey involved an awe-inspiring visualization of Earth’s history, from shifting continents to the rise and fall of civilizations. Guided by the being, she identified her time period and pinpointed her physical body in a hospital. Re-entering her body was an intensely physical experience, filled with searing cold, heat, and the overwhelming sensation of being alive. After waking, she momentarily lost consciousness again and returned to the spirit world, where the being warned her that she was dangerously close to death. Urgently, she found her body once more, witnessing it lifeless and limp in the arms of medical personnel. She re-entered just in time, experiencing another overwhelming rush of sensations. She was then taken into emergency surgery, where she briefly spoke to the surgeon before blacking out again. Upon fully recovering, she retained every memory of the NDE causing powerful and permanent personal transformation. She no longer feared death but cherished life deeply. She saw existence as a cycle of struggle and meaning, where stories fuel the spirit world. She became more compassionate, engaged, and open to others, feeling a deep connection to all life. She also developed an awareness of an unseen spiritual presence and experienced frequent moments of déjà vu, serendipitous encounters, and inexplicable connections with strangers and animals. COMMENTARY ON THE NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE (NDE) AND ITS IMPACT This near-death experience is remarkable for its depth and coherence. It presents a vision and interpretations of existence where struggle, rather than peace, is the essential purpose of life. The experiencer learns that spirits exist in a state of stasis and bliss between lives, and those who engage deeply with life have more opportunities to reincarnate. Spirits who harm others are placed in extended stasis to reflect demonstrating further that life is truly a gift. This suggests a cosmic system based on learning and spiritual growth. One of the most striking realizations she had was the importance of life’s challenges. Rather than being obstacles, struggles are the driving force behind that personal and universal growth. Her transformation upon returning to life was profound in that she embraced life with a newfound sense of connection and purpose. She shifted from being judgmental and rigid to open, understanding, and engaged with others. This highlights how deep spiritual experiences can fundamentally alter one’s worldview and relationships. Her perception of time during the experience, where Earth’s entire history unfolded before her, aligns with other NDE reports suggesting time is exceptionally different in the afterlife. Her journey back to her body was filled with urgency, emphasizing the delicate balance between life and death. The act of re-entering her body was described as intensely physical (others have called it painful), highlighting the stark contrast between the blissful spirit world and the overwhelming sensations of material existence. Another fascinating aspect of her experience is the concept of interconnectedness. She perceived herself not as an isolated soul but as part of a collective “Big Us,” a universal consciousness where individuality is still present. This aligns with many spiritual traditions that emphasize oneness "us" is the creative force. For example, in the creation story of the Jewish and Christian scriptures it is interesting to see the contrast as it is written of the "one" God ; "let 'us' create man in 'our' image." This idea of many and one is reflected at the heart of the doctrine of the trinity. Hinduism suggests that the soul (Atman) and ultimate reality (Brahman) are one and the same, Sufism, a mystic Islamic perspective, teaches of the "Wahdat al-Wujud (the Unity of Being). In the end, Bristol's post-NDE changes enable her to pay more attention to life's finer details. This included heightened intuition, frequent déjà vu, and a deep sense of synchronicity with the world around her. She also became more attuned to the presence of animals and strangers, suggesting expanded sensitivities and awareness. Her comments of extraterrestrial life further expands the discussion, reinforcing the idea that consciousness extends far beyond the dimension of Earth. Ultimately, this NDE is a testament to the power of transformation. It challenges us to embrace struggle, engage meaningfully with life, and live in a way that makes our story worth telling. Her experience reminds us that life itself is the great opportunity to feel and spread compassion, not something to be escaped, but something to be cherished.

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